Comments on: My Biggest Regret And Your Biggest Opportunity http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/ From Managing Stress To Finding And Following Your Bliss. Thu, 16 Jul 2009 10:02:30 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: case http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-400 case Sun, 31 Aug 2008 05:33:21 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-400 whoops last......spelling.. I have been through many hard losses It has made me who Iam That is God working If I had not have gone through all these trials I would not have the love or compassion or understanding.... Why me......because God knew I could do it whoops last……spelling..
I have been through many hard
losses
It has made me who Iam
That is God working
If I had not have gone through all these trials I would not have the love or compassion or understanding….
Why me……because God knew I could do it

]]> By: case http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-399 case Sun, 31 Aug 2008 05:30:12 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-399 Well, to me observations are not judging. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. Pretty simple. I can look in the mirror and not regret. If I do make a mistake I like to quickly apologize for it. I like to keep things cleared up as we never know if it may be our lasy day, hour or moment Well, to me observations are not judging. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. Pretty simple. I can look in the mirror and not regret. If I do make a mistake I like to quickly apologize for it. I like to keep things cleared up as we never know if it may be our lasy day, hour or moment

]]> By: Jill http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-195 Jill Thu, 05 Jun 2008 22:55:28 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-195 Hi all. Hi Rob, By teaching and sharing with others, you evolve yourself. How many times have you looked back over your life and thought you knew alot back then but with hindsight, it was really not that much at all? It happens on a constant basis, we are all meant to make decisions we regret, we are all meant to wish we could go back and change something we said or did or the way that we acted at a certain time in our lives. Without all these "bad/wrong" decisions or actions, we would never learn the difference between whats right and whats wrong, without being judegmental of others we would never learn the reasons we shouldn't judge others. Constant mental evolution. In answer to Paul's question, of course you should have people around you who don't live up to your integrity, how else would you learn that as long as you have integrity thats all that matters, as long as you are judging others that have not learned through life experience, the things that you have learned you are not acting with integrity anyway. So you learn from them. Always, everyday, everywhere you go, in every way. I love that saying "we can only do our best with what we know now" we cant be what we are not, what we haven't become. If life worked that way we would all be perfect. Life will always be a struggle to find the right path, the right way to act, to think, to love, everyday we wil all learn something different and new, and you choose whether to enjoy the journey or resist it, usually a combo of both and thats good, because resistance leads to learning and going with the flow is the what resistance is trying to teach. Hi all. Hi Rob,
By teaching and sharing with others, you evolve yourself. How many times have you looked back over your life and thought you knew alot back then but with hindsight, it was really not that much at all? It happens on a constant basis, we are all meant to make decisions we regret, we are all meant to wish we could go back and change something we said or did or the way that we acted at a certain time in our lives. Without all these “bad/wrong” decisions or actions, we would never learn the difference between whats right and whats wrong, without being judegmental of others we would never learn the reasons we shouldn’t judge others. Constant mental evolution. In answer to Paul’s question, of course you should have people around you who don’t live up to your integrity, how else would you learn that as long as you have integrity thats all that matters, as long as you are judging others that have not learned through life experience, the things that you have learned you are not acting with integrity anyway. So you learn from them. Always, everyday, everywhere you go, in every way. I love that saying “we can only do our best with what we know now” we cant be what we are not, what we haven’t become. If life worked that way we would all be perfect. Life will always be a struggle to find the right path, the right way to act, to think, to love, everyday we wil all learn something different and new, and you choose whether to enjoy the journey or resist it, usually a combo of both and thats good, because resistance leads to learning and going with the flow is the what resistance is trying to teach.

]]> By: Brian http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-144 Brian Tue, 13 May 2008 18:28:05 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-144 Rob, Just read your book. What you had to say resonated with me nd I got a lot of "new" prospectives along with a deepening of other prospectives I've been nurturing. Thanks for the insights. I have a question which always dogs me that I hope you will shed some light on. On page 58 of your book, Happiness 2.0, you talk about letting go. When I read or hear about the concept of "letting go" I feel a knowing that it is right. My question though is why does that always feel like "allowing" to me? Allowing in the negative sense, as in being passive or not efforting to right the wrong? I have this disconnect with understanding the principle on one hand and fighting it on the other. Thanks in advance. Brian Rob,
Just read your book. What you had to say resonated with me nd I got a lot of “new” prospectives along with a deepening of other prospectives I’ve been nurturing. Thanks for the insights.

I have a question which always dogs me that I hope you will shed some light on. On page 58 of your book, Happiness 2.0, you talk about letting go. When I read or hear about the concept of “letting go” I feel a knowing that it is right. My question though is why does that always feel like “allowing” to me? Allowing in the negative sense, as in being passive or not efforting to right the wrong?

I have this disconnect with understanding the principle on one hand and fighting it on the other.

Thanks in advance. Brian

]]> By: Sudhir http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-143 Sudhir Mon, 12 May 2008 17:24:31 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-143 I believe that I have taken a right decision to learn about happy thoughts. I found it interesting as I support your ideas. reading your program will help me to enhance my knowledge and built my confidence in dealing with life and people. Would look forward to have more thoughts. Thanks a lot. Sudhir I believe that I have taken a right decision to learn about happy thoughts. I found it interesting as I support your ideas. reading your program will help me to enhance my knowledge and built my confidence in dealing with life and people. Would look forward to have more thoughts. Thanks a lot.
Sudhir

]]> By: zaheer http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-134 zaheer Thu, 08 May 2008 05:33:37 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-134 i achieved a great deal of your advice and now i love my life and learnt to face it with confidence and courage.keep on mailing me .thank u very much i achieved a great deal of your advice and now i love my life and learnt to face it with confidence and courage.keep on mailing me .thank u very much

]]> By: mohammad alam http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-132 mohammad alam Tue, 06 May 2008 06:43:19 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-132 DEAR ROB, PLEASE HAVE NO REGRETS FOR WHAT YOU DID WITH GOOD INTENTION IN THE PAST. TAKING BEST DECISION AND CHOOSING BEST AVAILABE OPTION IS NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE IN OUR DAILY LIFE . BEACAUSE HUMAN HAVE FOLLIES AND FAULTS. AND GOD IS VERY KIND TO FORGIVE US. THE BEST THING IS TO DO A THING IN THE BEST OF INTENTION AND AS SELFLESSLY AS POSSIBLE AND THAN HAVE NO REGRETS AND GRACEFULLY ACCEPT THE RESULT. BEST WISHWES MOHAMMAD ALAM DEAR ROB,
PLEASE HAVE NO REGRETS FOR WHAT YOU DID WITH GOOD INTENTION IN THE PAST. TAKING BEST DECISION AND CHOOSING BEST AVAILABE OPTION IS NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE IN OUR DAILY LIFE . BEACAUSE HUMAN HAVE FOLLIES AND FAULTS. AND GOD IS VERY KIND TO FORGIVE US. THE BEST THING IS TO DO A THING IN THE BEST OF INTENTION AND AS SELFLESSLY AS POSSIBLE AND THAN HAVE NO REGRETS AND GRACEFULLY ACCEPT THE RESULT.

BEST WISHWES
MOHAMMAD ALAM

]]> By: James http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-130 James Sun, 04 May 2008 04:18:21 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-130 I really appreciate the work and philosophy you speak of. I await for your Happiness 2.0 report. cheers! I really appreciate the work and philosophy you speak of. I await for your Happiness 2.0 report.

cheers!

]]> By: Rob McPhillips http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-129 Rob McPhillips Fri, 02 May 2008 22:01:43 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-129 It's only about you. When you judge anyone negatively, in that moment you create a split in your mind, a conflict, which holds you from peace of mind and being as happy as you can be. “Judge not lest you be judged” is really about what judging does to you, not the other. When I spoke about myself not living up to my standards, it was in moments where I had judged against others and my actions followed from that. It's always other people that give us our greatest challenges. In the next week or at the most 2 weeks I'll have finished the Happiness 2.0 report. It details my complete philosophy and will give a complete answer to this question and hopefully many more. It’s only about you. When you judge anyone negatively, in that moment you create a split in your mind, a conflict, which holds you from peace of mind and being as happy as you can be.

“Judge not lest you be judged” is really about what judging does to you, not the other.

When I spoke about myself not living up to my standards, it was in moments where I had judged against others and my actions followed from that.

It’s always other people that give us our greatest challenges.

In the next week or at the most 2 weeks I’ll have finished the Happiness 2.0 report. It details my complete philosophy and will give a complete answer to this question and hopefully many more.

]]> By: Paul http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/my-biggest-regret-and-your-biggest-opportunity/comment-page-1/#comment-128 Paul Fri, 02 May 2008 16:58:40 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=39#comment-128 Which raises the question; "How should we deal with other people who do not come close to our level of integrity or meet our standards?" Should we avoid them, should we help them, or should we just accept them? Some people who are perhaps of a religious nature may quote "Judge not lest you be judged". Yet we all have to make judgements about others every day. It would be interesting to read your angle on this Rob. Which raises the question; “How should we deal with other people who do not come close to our level of integrity or meet our standards?” Should we avoid them, should we help them, or should we just accept them?

Some people who are perhaps of a religious nature may quote “Judge not lest you be judged”. Yet we all have to make judgements about others every day. It would be interesting to read your angle on this Rob.

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