Comments on: Is Letting Go To Allow Suffering? http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/ Reduce Stress To A Minimum In Your Life. Fri, 05 Sep 2008 19:56:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Sereena http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/#comment-280 Sereena Wed, 25 Jun 2008 10:29:21 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=47#comment-280 it seems like we can stop internalising what we receive mostly from others, if it doesnt serve us to do so... letting go comes after we have internalised it and enhanced it with our emotions and mental maths to it... thats how it seems to me after I have observed the nature of 'letting go'; we only let go of something we are holding onto... where does this come from what we are holding onto? was it there with us? NO... it must have been part of internalising what others are presenting before us... life presents itself in very many ways... do we have to INTERNALISE' everything we come across? NOT AT ALL... this power to discern/discriminate and filter it out has to be the first process we can practise to make it our way of being, before we think of letting go of what got inside us... how does it get inside us anyway? from outside... would this ever happen if we dont allow it? NO... we are not our emotions... E-motions are energy set in motion; who is setting it in motion? US. letting go is releasing what we are holding onto... RE-LEASE = cut the long term rental agreement with that energy and make it short or allow another energy to stay on for a while to help us learn... LEASE = right given to someone/some emotion to stay on/live on inside us... do we suffer by letting go? or do we suffer by not letting go? - this is upto the individual to observe as it happens within... many times the answers from without do not ring a bell... and we go on to think that the speaker is TRYING TO CHANGE us or IMPOSE their thoughts on us... is this true? what is suffering? when we suffer, what is the inner process that is going on within? Sereena. it seems like we can stop internalising what we receive mostly from others, if it doesnt serve us to do so… letting go comes after we have internalised it and enhanced it with our emotions and mental maths to it… thats how it seems to me after I have observed the nature of ‘letting go’; we only let go of something we are holding onto… where does this come from what we are holding onto? was it there with us? NO…

it must have been part of internalising what others are presenting before us… life presents itself in very many ways… do we have to INTERNALISE’ everything we come across? NOT AT ALL… this power to discern/discriminate and filter it out has to be the first process we can practise to make it our way of being, before we think of letting go of what got inside us… how does it get inside us anyway? from outside… would this ever happen if we dont allow it? NO…

we are not our emotions…
E-motions are energy set in motion; who is setting it in motion? US.

letting go is releasing what we are holding onto…
RE-LEASE = cut the long term rental agreement with that energy and make it short or allow another energy to stay on for a while to help us learn…
LEASE = right given to someone/some emotion to stay on/live on inside us…

do we suffer by letting go?
or do we suffer by not letting go?
- this is upto the individual to observe as it happens within…
many times the answers from without do not ring a bell…
and we go on to think that the speaker is TRYING TO CHANGE us or IMPOSE their thoughts on us… is this true?

what is suffering? when we suffer, what is the inner process that is going on within?

Sereena.

]]> By: roiford http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/#comment-266 roiford Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:56:44 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=47#comment-266 Thank you so much, I am really enjoying reading your article. Is letting go to allow suffering Thank you so much, I am really enjoying reading your article. Is letting go to allow suffering

]]> By: Cindy http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/#comment-264 Cindy Mon, 23 Jun 2008 05:48:58 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=47#comment-264 VERY Very interesting. I think this is as close to an accurate assessment that I've heard. Thanks! VERY Very interesting. I think this is as close to an accurate assessment that I’ve heard. Thanks!

]]> By: pattie http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/#comment-172 pattie Sun, 25 May 2008 12:09:52 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=47#comment-172 Well done! It's the high time people change their pespective. Well done!

It’s the high time people change their pespective.

]]> By: Rolly http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/#comment-165 Rolly Fri, 23 May 2008 08:15:06 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=47#comment-165 I agree with you Rob. I just recall the days when I was a small kid and my father is teaching me on how to do my projects in school. then he said "Rolly, next time I will not to it for you but you can do your project alone so that you will learn how to do it." then I said Ok. For me letting go is putting everything into the right way and teaching everyone the discipline and adjust to the way he or she will learn from the experience.. In a relationship, letting go is a heart ache but the other side of it is a relief of grief or an understanding of the situation.. I agree with you Rob. I just recall the days when I was a small kid and my father is teaching me on how to do my projects in school. then he said “Rolly, next time I will not to it for you but you can do your project alone so that you will learn how to do it.” then I said Ok. For me letting go is putting everything into the right way and teaching everyone the discipline and adjust to the way he or she will learn from the experience..

In a relationship, letting go is a heart ache but the other side of it is a relief of grief or an understanding of the situation..

]]> By: Cheryl Gavid http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/2008/05/19/is-letting-go-to-allow-suffering/#comment-163 Cheryl Gavid Thu, 22 May 2008 15:13:12 +0000 http://livewithoutconflict.com/blog/?p=47#comment-163 Rob, I think that was an excellent analogy. Thank you. Cheryl Rob,

I think that was an excellent analogy.

Thank you.

Cheryl

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